Smart Conversations

These days, good looks, that good position at your work that you hold, or that posh car or friends that you hang out with, no matter how good your fashion sense is, if you cant hold an intellectual conversation, you a loss. Well not completely unless you change you know. My deputy principal back in high school, used to tell us "change or change will change you" *with some accent ofcourse* i think its one safe quote, change before you are by change itself hehe.

Its sad how so many people just cant seem to hold decent conversations. You know like, you have atleast gone through school, is it so hard for you to express yourself better? I bet it aint.

Then there's this Xhosa language people. They have a syndrome that they just see to be cool but it aint. You will recognize these people by their constant replacement of the 'S' by 'X'. God how i hate this. You know i hate myself for once texting people with that sickness. Forgive me Lord. But that should just be a stage that we all have to pass through and leave it there. Dont grow up and carry it with you. Leave it for the fresh out of high school kids or high school kids. With them, i would understand and try and hold a conversation with them, but you! A mature person, please let it go.

I know it takes a lot of hard work to put up a decent conversation and no! you do not wake up and just like that and you are a good conversationalist, no It takes time and need I say practice. It is not even about being smart because lots of nerds have brilliant minds but very poor social skills, communication skills are an important aspect when it comes to having a good conversation. You have to know the best way to approach different kinds of people.

Surely it cannot be wrong to conclude that
chatting should not just be for the sake of it,
conversations need to be intellectual. Its actually beautiful to communicate with someone who makes the conversation better and not akward at all. Aint nothing i crave for as much as having an intellectual conversation with someone.

Oh and respect the Alphabets.

Regards.