"Gurl i think he cheating, imma snoop him down"
I read the text my girl sent me. She suspects her boyfriend of 6 months is already cheating on her. Girls are the greatest snoopers of all time. They define snooping as going through someones stuff to get information.
Most of us love snooping. We snoop because we can't handle the unknown. Someone once said we should be allowed to know all information about all the people we talk to.
90% of it is curiosity and the other 10 is just other reasons and some would say its usually so as to protect ourselves. You agree? Yes? No?
Snooping has its downgrades ladies. Especially when you snoop and there's totally nothing. This is so rare but sometimes it happens. Trust me you are found snooping when there's nothing, you will look like one insecure psycho. It aint good. Remember what they say, if you snoop, you are the a******.
It can also backfire when you find out something really disgusting that you didn't want to see or one that will break you.
One important thing, once you have snooped and you have acquired the info, its critical that you know how to use it. First, don't act on it imediately. You have to calm down, take a deep breath, talk to a trusted friend about it, set a powerpoint presentation, if it is neccessary do storyboard of the order of where you were when you found out things so that they have no case.
Remember, pre-dating snooping is good. You have to check him out on social media to know if you can work with him or nah. But post-snooping, girl, gerrarahia thats a big problem. Its only allowed if you have a suspicion. If you feel they cheating, its okay to snoop.
One Rule: Don't get caught.
But be ready to handle what you are looking for coz most of the time, it will hurt you.
Regards.
